Happy 20th Birthday Queenzy!

Happy 20th Birthday to Queenzy!


20/20
BY GEORGE BENSON

When I think of all I put you through
Always taking you for granted
I never saw it from your point of view
Blinded by the double standard

You were tryin' to tell me all along
Something in the love was missing
You said "It's not too late to get it back"
But I just wasn't listening

If I knew back then what I know now
If I understood the what , when , why and how
Now it's clear to me
What I should have done
But hindsight is 20/20 vision

Now I see it in a different light
I've been losin' you in stages
Give us one more chance
I'll get it right
Girl , you're gonna see some changes

If I knew back then what I know now
If i understood the what , when , why and how
Now it's clear to me
What I should have done
But hindsight is 20/20 vision

Takin' time to catch up on some history
Tryin' to figure out what went wrong
with you and me
And it doesn't really matter
what's been before
But I know there's no future
with you walkin' out that door

I believe Birthdays are made in heaven
For God is the one who made the day you were born.
To bless your life and give you longer life.

Why Your Birthday May 12 is for the Glory of God to be made manifest in your life.

12 is the number of gates of the holy city of New Jerusalem,
And upon the 12 gates are 12 angels,
And 12 names written thereon, are the names of the 12 tribes of the sons of Israel. And the wall of the city are 12 foundations
And in them the names of the 12 apostles of the Lamb.
And he measured the city with the reed, 12 thousand furlongs.
And he measured the wall thereof, a hundred and forty and four cubits (12 times 12), which is the measure of a man, that is, of an angel.
And on the 12 gates are 12 pearls.
(From Rev. 21:2, 12, 14, 16, 17, 21);

In the midst of the street of it, and on this side of the river and on that was the tree of life, bearing twelve fruits, yielding its fruit every month (Rev. 22:2);

the twelve fruits are all things of charity.

[4] In Matthew:--

Jesus said, Verily I say unto you, that ye who have followed Me in the regeneration, when the Son of man shall sit upon the throne of His glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel (Matthew 19:28);

here apostles are not meant by apostles, nor thrones by thrones, nor tribes by tribes, but all things that are of faith (AC 2129). Moreover in the Word of the Old Testament, where twelve tribes are mentioned, it is all things of the church that are signified; and the case is the same with the twelve stones according to the names of the twelve tribes of Israel in the Urim and Thummim (Exod. 28:21); and with the twelve loaves of the show bread set in order upon the table (Lev. 24:5, 6); and so in other instances.

From the Spiritual Meaning of 12.

12 is a number God has ordained for His awesome signs and wonders.

Your 20th birthday on Monday May 12 will mark the beginning a new era in your beautiful and wonderful life.

The beginning of new things and new precious possessions.

The beginning of a higher level of your progress and success.

The beginning of the open doors for new breakthroughs.The beginning of a new chapter in your future.

I wish you all the best things in Life which only the Almighty God can give to you.

May God bless the mother through whom God brought you into this awesome world.
And may God bless the father whom God used to conceive you in the womb of your mother.

Cheers and God bless you always.

Happy 20th birthday!

For the Queen of My Heart

My Sweetest,
I have never fallen in love before until I met you
I thought the passion would soon be over,
But I can still feel the heat of the fever
I have never felt like this before
And I am craving for more
Because, I don't want to stop loving you.

You are my Princess and my Queen
The loveliest I have ever seen
The one and only Queen of my heart.

I promise you on this 14th Day of February, 2008
Before heaven and earth
That I will always love you
As long as you believe in our love
Our love will last forever.



7 Places to Take Your Man for Valentine’s


Perfectly good men can be kind of bad when it comes to romance. Maybe it’s your year to take charge—and keep the destination a surprise.

By Rebecca Schoenkopf for MSN City Guides

There are few disappointments for a woman in love like an underwhelming Valentine’s Day. Perhaps I’m unpacking just my own baggage here, but in my wide experience, if a man is properly romantic, it’s because he’s had a lot of practice—sometimes a lot of practice at the same time he’s romancing you. Good men—keepers, not Lotharios—aren’t often well-versed in the rose-petal-scattering arts.

And so the only truly fulfilling Valentine’s Days I’ve ever had have been with the greatest of cads. That is not what I’m recommending here.

Instead of settling for same-old—once again, a prix-fixe dinner at a restaurant that hands out Champagne and a rose, while you’re too heavy and bloated to feel amorous after—why not take your big, dumb, emotionally inarticulate hunk of a man and treat him to the romance, and show him how it’s done? Take the pressure off his well-meaning but kinda lame shoulders—lovingly. Say to that man, “Baby, just you let me worry about it this year.” Make sure to do this without a sneer or a long-suffering sigh; say it with a twinkle (and follow it up with the kind of kiss that can get you pregnant). He will be grateful. And you will be showing him how to reap the rewards of a very self-interested selflessness.

Here are seven places to take your man (buy a blindfold if you need to):

Scent of a (Wo)Man
Unless your man is more than usually metro, chances are he hasn’t experienced the bliss a good esthetician can deliver all while extracting his blackheads. Make your appointment as far as possible in advance for late afternoon on Valentine’s Day, tell the esthetician you’ll be delivering a newbie to her, and drop him off without explanation. (It helps if you’ve told him to clear his schedule.) When you pick him back up an hour and 15 later, his rumpled hair will be matched only by his inner glow (and the glow of 17 layers of moisturizer). If you’re taking him to dinner after, you’ll want to bring him a hairbrush. He won’t have felt this relaxed in years, and you’re the one who made it happen. Love is in the aromatherapy-scented air.


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What Do You Wish for the Valentine?

Tomorrow, February 14, is St. Valentine's Day.

I have gone out since yesterday to distribute dozens of copies of my popular book of love, "The Language of True Love” on Bonny Island in the Niger Delta of Nigeria. I gave a copy to a tall and handsome Dutch who gave me a ride in his white jeep from the Nigerian LNG Estate to the Nigerian LNG Roundabout where I distributed more copies of the book to two Igbo vendors of VCDs to sell them. I had a brief discussion with the kind Dutch man before we parted. The Dutch man told me he has been working on Bonny Island since 2005 and happily secured with his wife and children. I told him that I am writer.
"You are a romance writer," he said as he looked at the title and romantic couple on the cover of "The Language of True Love".
"I write more on politics, poems and fiction," I said.
I told him that the peaceful environment of the Nigerian LNG Estate on Bonny Island is very conducive to the peace of mind a writer needs to write serious literature. I wanted to get away from the hustle and bustle of Lagos city or what Thomas Hardy called far from the madding crowd.
He nodded in agreement with me.
I told him that first Dutch man I met when I arrived Bonny Island was Mr. Wilmar Bliek and commended Mr. Bliek's good management of the Nigerian LNG Estate.

There is peace in the Nigerian LNG Estate, but there is violence in most of the host communities as unidentified and well-known militants have been on rampage and held hundreds of foreign oil workers and local oil workers hostage since 2003 with many casualties. Foreign oil workers dare not use the dangerous waterways, because hundreds of them have been kidnapped and later released in exchange for huge ransoms. Some have been killed and thousands have left the volatile Niger Delta for the safe parts of Nigeria. Unidentified gunmen shot and killed two male Naval officers last Monday, whilst they were escorting one of the Nigerian LNG ferries across the Bonny Channel. The management of the Nigerian LNG has suspended the official Ferry Service until further notice and a similar decision was taken last year when militant killed two police officers guarding the passengers and goods on a Nigerian LNG ferry. Dare devil gunmen and militants have forced the management of the Nigerian LNG to use helicopters to fly workers and others over the dangerous waterways to save lives, and use barges for the transportation of goods.
I did not want to discuss the Niger Delta crisis plaguing Nigeria, because I did not want to digress from the topic of our discussion or dampen his cheerful mood on the eve of St. Valentine's Day.
I thanked him as I alighted from the vehicle. I shut the door and he drove off in the direction of the Nigerian LNG Plant Complex in the Industrial Area.

Beware of online Valentine's greetings, because they may contain Internet worm and singles should beware of sex on Valentine's day, because of the rampant cases of STDs and HIV/AIDS.




What do you wish for the Valentine?

I would have loved to be with my one and only Val, Queen, who is far away in Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory (FCT). I have already bought a rose flower and other gifts meant for her as Christmas presents, but I have not been able to visit her. I have been delayed by unforeseen circumstances, because of the dangers of crossing the sea from Bonny Island to Port Harcourt before going on to Abuja by road or by air. I called her yesterday and told her to be rest assured of my love. I promised to come to Abuja later, she would be satisfied after my visit, and I have called her again today.

I have never loved anyone as I love Queen since I was born.
If I Could...

It started slowly.
Then it continued gradually and before I knew it, I have fallen in love with you.
Love comes either slowly or quickly.
But you will always know that you are simply in love.

I Thank God for My Birthday!

Who satisfieth thy mouth with good things; so that thy youth is renewed like the eagle's.
~ Psalm 103:5

I am a year older today.
I am very glad and grateful to God for all the beautiful and wonderful things He has been doing in my life from birth.
I thank God for my mother, Gladys Eke of blessed memory and I thank God for my father, Sunday Eke of blessed memory.
I thank God for my brothers and sister and others God has brought into my life.

I thank God for making me one in a million.
I thank God for making my future secure.
For God is my life insurance.

I thank God for the Queen of my heart who called me this morning from Abuja in Nigeria, and for loving me like no other woman has ever loved me since I was born.
She is one in a million.

Psalm 103 (King James Version)

1. Bless the LORD, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name.

2. Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits:

3. Who forgiveth all thine iniquities; who healeth all thy diseases;

4. Who redeemeth thy life from destruction; who crowneth thee with lovingkindness and tender mercies;

5. Who satisfieth thy mouth with good things; so that thy youth is renewed like the eagle's.

6. The LORD executeth righteousness and judgment for all that are oppressed.

7. He made known his ways unto Moses, his acts unto the children of Israel.

8. The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy.

9. He will not always chide: neither will he keep his anger for ever.

10. He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.

11. For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him.

12. As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.

13. Like as a father pitieth his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him.

14. For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust.

15. As for man, his days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so he flourisheth.

16. For the wind passeth over it, and it is gone; and the place thereof shall know it no more.

17. But the mercy of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting upon them that fear him, and his righteousness unto children's children;

18. To such as keep his covenant, and to those that remember his commandments to do them.

19. The LORD hath prepared his throne in the heavens; and his kingdom ruleth over all.

20. Bless the LORD, ye his angels, that excel in strength, that do his commandments, hearkening unto the voice of his word.

21. Bless ye the LORD, all ye his hosts; ye ministers of his, that do his pleasure.

22. Bless the LORD, all his works in all places of his dominion: bless the LORD, O my soul.

The Women Men Like and The Women Men Dislike

18. "There are three things that are too amazing for me,
four that I do not understand:
19. the way of an eagle in the sky,
the way of a snake on a rock,
the way of a ship on the high seas,
and the way of a man with a maiden.
Proverbs 30: 18-19 (New International Version)


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She is determined and hardworking online and offline.


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She is a hardworking Nollywood actress and loving mother.
Men love hardworking women and women who would be good mothers.


Women should not be too possessive, because men love freedom and you should respect their independence.


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Men love attractive women who are clean.


Cameron Richardson showing you how to keep your man.
Men love women who are very imaginative in bed.
If he is really the man you love and you want to have for keeps, then do your best to hook him and hook him for good. Make him asking for more and more.

99% of men are first attracted by the sex appeal of a woman.
What I call the lust at first sight natural instinct.
Is she pretty and sexy?
Then afterwards, men are interested in her character.
Does she have good manners or bad manners.

Men like the following:

1. Attractive women
2. Hygienic and healthy women.
3. Well bred and disciplined women
4. Women who know how to make love. French kisses go a long way and imaginative lovers are exciting to men.
5. Honest and transparent women. Do not keep things hidden from from him. Be honest from the beginning.
6. Hardworking women who challenge their men to become better and greater in life.
7. Women who respect men.
Men love respect.
If you disrespect your man, you are going to lose him to the woman who respects him.

Men dislike the following:

1. Unattractive women, (please, do not mistake this for the "Ugly Betty". )
2. Women without good manners, women who talk too much or pick the nose and women who curse and swear indoors or outdoors.
3. Dirty and unhygienic women
4. Women who do not know how to make love.
5. Women who tell lies.
6. Women who are lazy.
7. Women who do not respect men.

I recommend you read my book, "The Language of True Love", published by Flonnal Limited and distributed worldwide by Lulu Enterprises. The book is a must read for women and men who want to know how to keep their lovers for long.