Romance vs. Sex
The older we get, the more romantically connected we become to our spouse. However, the sexual connection doesn't always follow. Dr. Eric Braverman talks about the romance/sex gap and what you can do to fix it.
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Friday, April 29, 2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
Enemies of Valentine's Day
The point here is that this day should not provide an opportunity to extort or to exploit. Indeed, emphasis by a lady on material gifts would demean her as a chattel.
~ The Guardian of Nigeria, Monday February 14, 2011.
Those who think St. Valentine's Day is for trading their bodies for money and gifts are the enemies of St. Valentine's Day.
Valentine's Day is not for the lovers of lust, but for the custodians of true love.
Anyone who is going to use today to extort and exploit you does not know what is love.
Say no to anyone who wants to abuse and misuse today to reduce you to a sex object of lust.
Today you may find out the truth about your so called girlfriend.
Whether you are truly her boyfriend or customer.
If she is not happy and satisfied that you love her for the true virtues and values of love, then she is not your true love.
If he is not happy that you refuse to sleep with him today, then he is not worthy of you.
Do not hawk and sell yourself to day in the disguise of Valentine's Day.
Today, someone is cheating on another in the name of Valentine.
Today someone is committing adultery in the name of Valentine.
They are the enemies of Valentine's Day.
Spend today sharing and caring for your beloved and others who need your love.
~ By Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Beauty Benefits of Sex
Sex is beautiful when you enjoy it with the one you love. And healthy sex life makes a woman more beautiful and attractive, prettier and sexier for the lucky man in your love life. Andrea Miller in the video. Enjoy!
Andrea Miller is here to tell us why there are so many beauty benefits to having a good sex life.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Every Girl has a price
Every girl has a price to do crazy and disgusting things, but the question is what's yours?
Every girl has a price for love and sex in every relationship.
Girls do it most for money.
Love & Money: Making Sure Your Valentine is a Good Financial Match
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Love & Money: Making Sure Your Valentine is a Good Financial Match
As Valentine's Day approaches, couples rush to find the right ways to say "I love you." What they might not realize is it takes financial compatibility to sustain a healthy, long-term romantic relationship. In fact, money is the number one cause of relationship trouble in the United States.(1) Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards Consumer Advocate Eleanor Blayney, CFP® has some timely advice on how to strengthen a relationship and stop trouble before it starts – at least when it comes to money.
"Finances may not be the most romantic thing to discuss, but ignoring them can create big problems later in the relationship," Blayney said. "Partners today are more financially separate, having their own incomes, assets and debts. Full financial disclosure is imperative, considering that many individuals carry a heavy bag of financial behaviors and obligations into their relationships."
Here are some ideas that can make mixing love and money less of a tricky proposition:
* Explain What Money Means: Childhood perceptions of what money meant and how it was managed in families can shape the way adults deal with their finances. Sharing those early money perceptions with a partner can clarify what's important – and what's not – and avoid misunderstandings later in a relationship.
* Sync Money Goals with Life Goals: Sitting down and talking about each individual's vision of the future can help bridge the gap between partners' financial realities and life goals. If one wants a mansion in the nicest part of town while the other wants to send the kids to private school, priorities may need to be re-aligned to meet these different objectives. Each goal may require different planning and sacrifice that both partners buy into. It's important to take the time to align these goals early.
* Define "My" Money and "Our" Money: As counterintuitive as it may seem, it's important to discuss the need for some financial separateness in a relationship. Together, a couple should decide what assets will remain his or hers alone – without having to account to the other person – and what assets will be combined. Letting a spender have some "mad money" and a saver have a separate nest egg can prevent later acts of "financial infidelity" where partners start keeping accounts secret from one another.
* Plan for the Unexpected: Partners should create a financial contingency plan that lays out how each will work together should financial crises like a job loss or medical emergency arise. The best time to plan for the rough spots is while the road is still smooth.
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Sunday, February 6, 2011
Proof We're a Nation of Romantics
3 Feb 2011 15:47 Africa/Lagos
Proof We're a Nation of Romantics
LONDON, February 3, 2011/PRNewswire/ -- The results of a recent survey conducted by Interflora show that romance is well and truly alive in the UK and surprisingly men and women are more or less on the same page when it comes to their plans for this year.
Where is the love?
Those who say romance is dead are way off the mark. Latest research from Interflora reveals that a resounding 71% of us plan to celebrate Valentine's Day this year.
Full details of the compelling results can be found on the Interflora blog ( http://blog.interflora.co.uk/interflora-valentines-day-survey-infographic/) and a summary of the results are presented below.
When it comes to romance, though, it seems your postcode may be your most vital statistic.
This year, those living in Scotland are in for a great Valentine's Day - almost 69% say they are planning to celebrate the most romantic day of the year.
Things aren't looking so rosy for those living in Northern Ireland, though - only 46% of respondents are planning to surprise a loved one.
In London, 62% are gearing up for February 14th, as are 61% of those in the North West, the West Midlands and the South East and 60% in the East Midlands.
Let's hope those who are a little absent-minded will have their memory jogged before the big day as 14% of men have been in the doghouse on previous Valentine's Days when they forgot all about it.
Romance is blooming
Valentine's Day wouldn't be the same without flowers and this year red roses will, unsurprisingly, make up most of the bouquets sent, with 63% saying they will be selecting for arguably the most romantic of blooms. 11% will be sending roses of a different colour. And of the rose senders, 69% will be pulling out all the stops and sending a dozen.
The element of surprise is important too...
79% of men who give flowers prefer to surprise their partner with blooms delivered by a florist.
70% of women prefer to have flowers sent to their home address
Price of love
The average spend for Valentine's Day this year will be between GBP36 and GBP50, with 42% of respondents spending between these amounts.
7% will be spending between GBP51 and GBP100 and only 1% will be pushing the boat out and spending at least GBP100.
What women want
When it comes to how the day is marked, there's a surprising number of men getting it just right...
37% of men are planning to take their partner for a romantic meal
30% of women have put this top of their Valentine's list.
19% of women would love to be whisked off for a romantic weekend, but sadly only 11% need pack their weekend bags.
Those wanting jewellery may be a little disappointed with only half of the 16% dreaming of it actually having a tell-tale box to unwrap.
When it comes to lingerie, both genders are in perfect agreement. So let's hope the 9% of men buying sexy underwear will be giving it to the 9% of women hoping their present will be of the lacy kind.
Interflora surveyed 2,634 adults living in the UK during January 2011.
Notes to editors
To view the full survey infographic,please visit the Interflora Blog at http://blog.interflora.co.uk/interflora-valentines-day-survey-infographic/.
Source: Interflora
For further information contact the Interflora press office: 0800-542-1891 - press.enquiries@interflora.co.uk
Friday, February 4, 2011
Nigerian Girls Who Do Juju
Majority of Nigerian prostitutes on and off campus do juju.
Nigerian Girls Who Do Juju
I have met and befriended about three of them and they were all well educated and from comfortable families. Those who were close to them would never believe that such beautiful ladies were members of cults they joined when they were students at different universities in Nigeria. One of them even made sacrifices at the lagoon of the UNILAG. The second used special candles for rituals and the third one confessed that a python once came out of her vagina and said she was no longer in the cult. But her close female friend told me that she lied, because she was still keeping her white ritual plates. I made sure I never slept with anyone of them. I always had my Holy Bible whenever I passed the night with one of them. My friend dated another one who soon showed him her true colours one fateful day as they slept after making love. She suddenly got up and started singing and dancing in a strange ritual.
Majority of Nigerian prostitutes on and off campus do juju.
These are not rare cases, because many girls and ladies in Nigeria are ritualizes and pretending to be "Christians". They practice juju which they use in their relationships with men.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
My dear Nigerian girls and ladies
Beautiful Nigerian maiden by Grace Bernard
My dear Nigerian girls and ladies
Lest we forget, not all girls are ladies.
That said, let me PLEASE, and appeal to you one more time,
It is good to love and have fun, but PLEASE, DO SO WITHOUT LOSING YOUR DIGNITY, INTEGRITY AND NOBILITY AND NOT BEHAVING LIKE DOGS.
God made every woman to be the virtuous woman, but majority of them have rewired themselves to become promiscuous and unscrupulous women who do not care about the dignity, integrity and nobility of womanhood.
Our beautiful daughters, sisters, aunts and mothers deserve RESPECT and we should TREAT them with dignity as not seen and used as sex objects.
You should be controlled by your brains and not by money and sex.
You should be ruled by your intellect and not by your animal instinct.
You humans created in the beautiful and wonderful image of God and not animals.
So, do comport yourselves as God made you beautiful, powerful and wonderful helpmate for men.
Be a blessing to your family and society and not a curse.
Make us proud and not disgraced.
You must reject everyone who sees you as a sex object.
YOU ARE NOT A SEX OBJECT, BUT AN OBJECT OF BEAUTY, DIGNITY, INTEGRITY AND NOBILITY AND A GREAT BLESSING TO HUMANITY.
Sing and share this all time classic song by
Juliana Aquino
I’m So Glad That I’m A Woman lyrics
In the morning when I wake up
As I comb my hair
I can hear my daddy saying
It’s a big big world out there
While putting on my make-up
His words linger in the air
Just use the love I gave you
And you can make it anywhere
I’m so glad that I’m a woman
I know I wouldn’t trade
I know I got it made
We’re the life line of mankind
And now is the time for me
Life is such a challenge
Live it day by day
You never know what’s gonna happen
A what might come your way
Just stop and think about it
There is nothing we can do
They can’t live without us and
We can’t live without them too
Monday, January 3, 2011
Make her love you and make her proud
I love pretty and sexy babes and I thank God for bringing some of them into my life from Obalende to Shomolu to Gbagada and to Surulere.
Lagos is full o pretty and sexy babes.
Make her love you and make her proud.
Photo Credits: Hanging Out.
Saturday, February 6, 2010
The Best Gifts for the Valentine
Are you ready to cuddle and smooch this Valentine?
Well, how can we celebrate the Valentine without the loving gifts for our sweethearts?
Saying I love you is not enough.
Prove how much you love your sweetheart.
Here are the most recommended Valentine gifts.
The top 10 Sexiest Valentine's Day promo products for 2010 are:
1. Sexy® Water - bottled water with a label that says it all.
2. Bling Travel Mug - a mirror on the front is pimped with shiny faux
gems.
3. Romantic Evening Intimacy Kit - this pouch has six condoms and flavored
lubricant.
4. Contrast Color Thong - an imprinted hot favorite.
5. Chocolate Lips - wrapped in red foil, it's chocolate with a twist.
6. Tangle® Love Keychain - the famed toy has a risqué side.
7. Little Black Book of Sex Secrets - a reference with naughty tips.
8. Sex on the Beach Kit - includes coconut massage oil and drink recipes.
9. Red Heart USB Drive - who says you don't love your computer?
10. Silhouette Girl Flashing Pin - if truckers put it on mud flaps, you
can wear it.
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