I have read so many complaints by women claiming that they have never had orgasms and the truth is, many of them have had orgasms, but were ignorant of the experience. Many women cannot tell you what an orgasm is and they have it without knowing it!
Many so called sex experts have exploited the ignorance of these innocent women and sold them books filled with their own details of how to have an orgasm. But if a woman really knows the awesome body God has given her, she would not be conned or fooled by these exploiters of human ignorance.
In this single post, I am giving you all the facts for you to experience orgasms without stress.
Go through the following by clicking on the word orgasm to see the illustrations on how to know you are having orgasm and how you should have orgasms with or without sex.
Your Clitoris is the key to your Orgasm.
FACTS:
1. A man's primary erogenous zone is most often his penis, a woman's is her clitoris.
2. Ninety percent of women who masturbate do so by stimulating their clitoris.
3. How a woman experiences an orgasm during masturbation is usually totally different than how she experiences it during partner sex.
4. When a woman masturbates, she is almost guaranteed an orgasm
5. Faking orgasm is definitely a bad idea
If a woman is highly aroused then it seems possible that indirect simulation of her clitoris, combined with vaginal stimulation, could result in orgasm. If there is a strong emotional bond between a woman and her partner during intercourse, that psychological stimulation alone may result in an orgasm, if she is highly arousedClick here for the rest.
During the Orgasmic phase a woman may experience:
Rhythmic muscle contractions occur in the outer third of the vagina, the uterus, and anus. The first muscle contractions are the most intense, and occur at a rate of a little more than 1 per second (0.8 seconds). As the orgasm continues, the contractions become less intense and occur at a more random rate. A mild orgasm may have 3-5 contractions, an intense one 10-15.
The "sex flush" becomes even more pronounced and may cover a greater percentage of the body.
Muscles throughout the body may contract during orgasm, not just those in the pelvic area.
Orgasm also takes place in the brain, as indicated by monitoring brain waves.
Some women will emit or spray some fluid from their urethra during orgasm. This is often called female ejaculation. While the jury is still out on whether it is urine or female ejaculate that is expelled, the source of the fluid is not of great importance, women often report very strong orgasms when it occurs. That should be all that really matters, women's pleasure. No one questions male ejaculation, even if it too is messy.
Myotonia may be evident throughout the body, especially in the face, hands, and feet. A woman's facial expression may indicate that she is in pain when she is having a pleasurable orgasm.
At the peak of orgasm the entire body may become momentarily rigid.
Women who have never experienced orgasm, and women who are not sure if they have, often ask, "What does an orgasm feel like?" This is a hard, if not impossible, question to answer. Imagine trying to explain to someone what it feels like to sneeze or yawn. Not easy to do. How our senses and brain interpret physical stimuli is subjective, that is dependent solely on the individual's perceptions. While we can measure the physical stimuli, we cannot measure how a person perceives it. Even if a woman is connected to monitoring equipment when she experiences 15 strong orgasmic contractions over a 10 second period of time, how do we know she experienced it more intensely than another woman who only has a 5 contraction orgasm lasting 4 seconds? The woman having the ten-second orgasm may be wondering why her orgasms are so weak! If a woman has experienced some form of nerve damage, she may not be able to tell if she has had an orgasm.
If sexual stimulation continues, a woman may experience one or more additional orgasms.
The vaginas, and vaginal opening, return to their normal relaxed state.
The breasts, labia, clitoris, and uterus return to their normal size, position, and color.
The clitoris and nipples may be so sensitive that any stimulation may be uncomfortable.
The "sex flush" disappears.
There may be heavy sweating, and breathing.
The heart may beat rapidly.
If orgasm does not occur, a woman will still experience most of what is listed above, but at a much slower rate. The blood trapped in the pelvic organs, not having been dissipated by orgasmic muscle contractions, may result in a feeling of heaviness, and pelvic discomfort.
If a woman experiences one orgasm, she can usually have many more in one session, as long as adequate stimulation continues. Some women will have one orgasm right after another, for as long as the stimulation is continued. Practice seems to make this more probable. The clitoris may be extremely sensitive after the first orgasm, requiring a very light or indirect touch. A woman may need only to slip a little ways away from the point of orgasm before she can have another. In this case, deep breathing may help a woman recover more quickly, enabling her to move onto her next orgasm. Most multiple orgasms occur during masturbation as there is nothing or no one to distract a woman from her pleasure, and a vibrator is more likely to be utilized. An electric vibrator does not get tired, unlike a woman's own hand, or that of her partner. A male partner who has himself experienced an orgasm may find himself incapable of continuing his stimulation of his partner. If a partner wants to bring their female partner to multiple orgasms, they will probably have to forego their own pleasure, at least temporally.
Highly Recommended:
Orgasms for Two: The Joy of Partnersex (Hardcover) by Betty Dodson.
"IT'S TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE why heterosexual men and women want to climax from penis/vagina sex-how convenient, how easy, and how wonderful to have partner sex be consistently..."
WATCH THE VIDEO OF THE CLITORIS
No comments:
Post a Comment